GOTCHA DAY

Court Date

Friday, May 29, 2009

END OF MAY ALREADY......WHERE DID THE TIME GO




Well it's the last weekend in May and a busy one at that.
My mom is doing very well, her surgury to remove the tumor in her esophogus went great and she will be released tomorrow after spending a week in the hospital.
Tues Ava and I will be heading to Dallas/FT. WORTH, TX to see her, she has not seen Ava yet do to the Cancer.
The boys last day of school is Wed June 3rd. Allen passed the FCAT and will be moving on to the 4th grade, Zachary is well and moving to 2nd Grade.
Ava is growing so fast I cant even explain how tall she has gotten.
Needless to say she likes to eat.
Yesterday I took the boys and Ava to the Library that was an experiece. She doesnt know how not to yell and scream like her brothers. She threw a tantrum ,I was so embarrassed. Hello Terrible two's.

Thursday, May 7, 2009

RENEWAL PICTURES





FINALLY I AM GETTING A CHANCE TO POST SOME OF OUR RENEWAL PICTURES. IT WAS WONERFUL DAN FOR ALL OF US AS A FAMILY AND TO HAVE FRIENDS HERE WAS GREAT! THE DAY AFTER WAS EASTER WE LEFT TO NJ BECAUSE UNFORTUANTLY DAN'S STEP FATHER PASSES AWAY EASTER SUNDAY. HE NEVER GOT THE CHANCE TO MEET AVA WHICH I WAS REALLY UPSET ABOUT.
THINGS ARE GOING BETTER NOW. DAN'S MOM IS DOING EXCEPTIONAL WELL. WE BOUGHT HER A WEBCAM WHILE WE WERE IN NJ SO WE CAN TALK THROUGH SKYPE VIDEO FREE EVERYNIGHT. ITS VERY COOL.
AVA IS WELL SHE IS 1 1/2 NOW GROWING SOOOO FAST I THINK SHE WILL BE TALL. WE JUST FINISHED HER FIRST POST PLACEMENT, ONLY 3 MORE TO GO 12,24, 36 MONTHS HOME.
WELL THATS ALL FOR NOW.

Foreign adoptions down in Russia as foster care grows

Foreign adoptions down in Russia as foster care grows

Fewer Russian children are being adopted abroad, although the number of total adoptions in Russia is declining, figures show. The statistics point to a complex future for the country's orphans as the government struggles to implement additional means of foster care even as it tries to encourage more Russians to adopt.
According to the U.S. State Department, which released figures for the 2008 fiscal year, the number of foreign children adopted by Americans fell by 12 percent.
In 2008, there were 17,438 adoptions for abroad, while there were 19,613 in 2007. Much of this decline is due to fewer adoptees from Russia and China. Although Russia has not yet released statistics for 2008, the numbers from previous years confirm the trend.
There were 6,689 foreign adoptions in 2006, and only 4,536 in 2007 - a decline of over 30 percent - according to statistics provided by the Ministry of Education and Science, which is responsible for developing adoption programs and legislation in the country.
The United States is the chief destination for Russia's foreign adoptees - in 2006, American parents adopted 3,468 children, making up well over half of the total number of foreign adoptions.
But these numbers do not indicate that Russians are adopting more children. Of the adoptees, the share of those who remain in Russia has increased - from 7,767 in 2006 to 9,537 in 2007. But overall adoptions decreased in 2007 by about 3 percent. Indeed, the number of adopted children peaked in 2004 at 16,434, and has been declining ever since.
This is explainable by foster care programs. While adoptions declined, there has been a rise in the number of children in new, alternative foster care initiatives. Whi­le not adoptions formally, these included various kinds of foster care in which a child lives with a guardian or a family that is paid by the government. There are at least three kinds of foster categories apart from adoption. Although the government officially considers adoptions the best option for orphans, it has opted to develop these programs to bring down the number of children without parents.
Since 2006, more stringent laws regulating foreign adoptions have gone into effect. According to Yekaterina Bridge of the World Association for Children and Parents, that has meant more paperwork.
"In 2007, adoption agencies were getting accreditation based on new rules, and that has led to fewer adoptions," she told The Moscow News.
"The first accreditations were received only in June, 2007, and this caused a delay."
Explaining the decline in the number of adoptions, Bridge cited alternative forms of foster care, but noted that these forms had their drawbacks.
"Local officials in the provinces are wary of developing foster care because of the money issue. They fear children could be taken advantage of for the government subsidies."
While she said her agency was supportive of the government efforts to develop newer forms of foster care, she cited the latest figures for children without parents as "staggering."
As of December 31, 2007, 171,044 children were listed in the official adoption data base.
Officials acknowledge the need to encourage more Russians to adopt.
"Adoption is the top priority in placing children with families," says Alexandra Ochi­rova, who chairs the Public Cham­ber's Commission on Social and De­mographic Policy.
"But the statistics do not show that the problem is being solved. Since not enough children are being adopted, other forms of foster care are being offered."
Ochirova does not believe that foreign adoptions will solve the problem, however.
"There are various points of view, and the interests of the child should be put first," she told The Moscow News. "But I believe that this problem should be solved inside the country. This doesn't mean we should have a ban on international adoptions, but considering the demographic situation, it would be good to make the population better prepared to adopt Russian children."
Ochirova says that raising awareness, advertising, and easing bureaucracy would lead to more adoptions. There are many Russians willing to adopt, she says, but they are daunted by the bureaucratic process.

LOVE

Love... bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. - 1 Corinthians 13:7
"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always preserves."-- 1 Corinthians 13:4-7